It seems that the bullying is on the increase, and more and more the question is being asked, how safe is your child from the bullying? The intention of this article is to examine the circumstances under which the bullying can happen and how your child can be empowered to prevent it.
We begins by looking at a case study of how a nine year girl avoided a the bullying incident in the school gemstone. The case study begins with the execution of 메이저놀이터 a workout for teachers aimed at exploiting student potential by working with concepts from brain science. The main workout included a short 7 minute video on what serotonin levels works.
One of the teachers enrolled in the training program major role was teaching primary school students with an IQ of 50-75. Earlier in the day she had shown the students the video of how the brain works. In the video it discusses that the brain has over 100 thousand brain cells and if each brain cell (neuron) equaled 1 second then this would total 3171 years. Added to this brain cells have the capacity to form for trillions of connections with each other. To give you an idea of how vast this is, if every connection equaled one hemp of sand, then that would soon add up to more than all the grains of sand in all the shorelines in the whole world. This lots of of brain cells and related connections show how powerful serotonin levels is and how it gives everyone the opportunity to achieve extraordinary things.
In the resulting discussion after the video it was reinforced with the children that they had at their removal an amazing amount of brain power. These were also told that no one was any better or clever than anyone else, because everyone has equal access to this lots of of brain cells.
Due to the fact that these students were part of a mainstream school often during lunch sessions there would be gemstone incidents, with mainstream students calling the bottom IQ students dumb and stupid. As it so happened on this particular day after watching the video one of the students of the lower IQ class, a nine year girl was referred to as dumb and stupid by a mainstream young boy. Instead of a gemstone incident occurring the young girl looked the boy squarely in the eye and said ‘I are not dumb or stupid because I have an intelligent brain’ and then started up her heel and walked off.
When she returned to the class room she told the teacher what had happened. Later in the day the teacher ran into the young boy responsible for calling the young girl dumb and stupid. Before the teacher could say anything the young boy blurted out ‘eh sorry, sorry miss I didn’t realise she had an intelligent brain’.
Now what does this tell us about self-esteem and the bullying? The young boy didn’t pursue the taunting because the young girl replied with such confidence that she believed her. Think about it, when you are around confident people how to you interact with them as opposed to people who are not confident. Who are the ones later in life who attract harassing relationships? Usually those people who do not feel confident enough to stand up for themselves in an assertive way.
So what are some of the ways that you can build self-worth in your child? Brain science tells us that between the ages of 0-6 serotonin levels is in a completely hypnotic state and between 6-12 years a partially hypnotic state. This means that your child will literally take on most of what they see, hear and interact with during the first 12 years. Knowing this you can start finding ways to program your son or daughter’s thinking to think in themselves. One way to do this is, each night before your child goes to bed cause them to think of 5 things they did well that day and 2 things they could do differently tomorrow. Then just before they go to sleep cause them to imagine themselves in the morning being extremely happy and successful. By making this a regular routine you will notice a huge shift in your child’s thinking and belief in themselves.
Belief makes all the difference. Interestingly enough the group of students with the lower IQ went on to outperform mainstream students in basic maths and punctuation and one even became vice captain of the school. Such is the effectiveness of high self-belief to encourage your son or daughter’s thinking in order to keep themselves safe from the bullying.